“Did they win, Mom?” That was always my first question when I woke up during the month of March. As the child of a Villanovan, I spent my entire childhood sitting in front of the television watching basketball games. Rooting for the Wildcats has been a passion of mine long before I ever became a Villanovan myself. I have always wanted the best for the basketball program, and, like many, I was not only shocked but disappointed when Jay Wright announced his retirement. When Kyle Neptune was named as the next man for the job, there were mixed opinions. How was anyone supposed to fill the shoes of Jay Wright?
Over the past three years, I have watched this team try to claw its way back to what it once was, and more notably, I have watched Neptune take the complete and utter fall for every failure. As Neptune’s era comes to an end, I believe it is important to note that what makes Villanova’s basketball team so incredible isn’t the glory it has experienced over the past 20 years but rather something much more.
I have watched these men my entire life, and the reason I looked up to this program wasn’t because of their championships but because of what Villanova basketball stood for. It is a public display of what Villanova is all about. This program is defined by the content of the character of the athletes that choose to come here, as the coaching staff maintains a high standard of excellence for players past and present. Wright built this championship-winning program off things like respect, hard work, grit and attitude. Those values have been ingrained into the program, and just because Wright put them there, doesn’t mean that Neptune didn’t continue to carry on that legacy.
As a community, we have gotten so used to the glitz and glamour of the past decade of Villanova basketball that we forget the years prior. The lost games, let-downs and failures, all came at the hands of Wright, the legend himself. We have gotten used to such an unrealistic standard for our coaching staff and men’s athletes. Expecting a Final Four appearance every year or a championship trophy simply isn’t feasible. However, what we can continue to expect is the program to maintain the same standards for its athletes and coaching staff it always has. My entire life I have known the men and the coaches of the Villanova basketball team to be a respected and honored group of people because of the way they held themselves and the way they chose to play the game. Neptune may have let us down when it came to a trip back to the tournament or a Big East Title but he made it his responsibility to honor what Villanova basketball has always been all about.
In my opinion, this is way more important. Championships, medals and glory will come and go, but the content of the character of the athletes is what will continue to define the program as well as the University. That is Villanova basketball. While we have much we can criticize Neptune for, we can also appreciate and commend him for continuing to make this standard his priority and protecting the uniqueness of the program.
Tommy Petrane is a freshman, as well as a lifelong Villanova basketball fan.
“People outside of it think Villanova people are overly obsessed, but it is really a culture,” Petrane said. “This culture is heavily in thanks to Jay Wright, and his mantra was the word ‘attitude,’ which is a great way to describe our program.”
No matter how anyone feels about the dismissal of Neptune, we can all acknowledge the reality that he spent his time here at Villanova working to keep the heart and soul that Wright instilled over two decades ago. By respecting and honoring the foundation of the program, Neptune was given the daunting task of building upon what had already been built.
“This job is one of the hardest to step into, and we recognize and thank Neptune for his efforts, and I hope the rest of the Villanova community is a little more lenient than they are right now,” Petrane said.
As we close the chapter on Neptune’s tenure at Villanova, it’s important to remember that the legacy of this program isn’t just built on championships or titles. It’s about the enduring values of respect, hard work and attitude that have been passed down through generations of athletes and coaches. The road ahead may not always be easy, but the heart of Villanova basketball will always beat strong, no matter who is leading the way.
L.A Stinger • Mar 30, 2025 at 6:23 am
I go back to the great Jack Kraft days as a lifelong Villanova fan. Having a brother who wore the blue and white I’ll bleed it for life. I couldn’t agree more that if they follow Coach Wright’s mantra, good things will come.
TM • Mar 29, 2025 at 7:11 pm
I share many of the same sentiments you wrote in this article but I disagree with Neptune having to rebuild the program. Nova came off a final 4 appearance with a good number of returning players in his first year.
James Savage 1978 • Mar 29, 2025 at 7:24 am
Our culture began to form in 1939 when Coach Al Severence took VU to the very first Final Four, continued through Jack Kraft, Rollie, and Steve Lappas; reaching the pinnacle under Jay Wright.
Nancy White • Mar 28, 2025 at 6:44 pm
In my opinion, Jay Wright continued and enhanced what Rolle Masimino started. Lest we forget how he built the program and brought the notoriety it so richly deserved.
Jerome Smith • Mar 28, 2025 at 5:47 pm
I also have been at Villanova for the last 18 yrs and have experienced the highs and lows of our men’s basketball team and as you wrote, Neptune filling the shoes of J Wright was a daunting task within itself, but he did Accomplished that. Maybe the championships didn’t , no Final Fours, but one thing was consistent, The Nova Culture stayed intact. It should be understood that college basketball has changed so much and has become so difficult to bring in good players, but one thing hasn’t changed the Villanova culture that’s more valuable in any championship – Go Nova!
Adrian • Mar 28, 2025 at 9:51 am
Very well said. Nova fans have become spoiled and have unrealistic fantasies of “winning it all” every year. I get frustrated, just like everyone else, but I add context to understand the realities of this.
Kathleen Duke • Mar 28, 2025 at 8:26 am
Don’t forget Coach Rollie Massamino who started it all
Fran • Mar 27, 2025 at 9:55 pm
Best wishes to Kyle Neptune! But as witnessed over his 3 year tenure at the helm, he probably wasn’t the best selection by the powers that be to begin with! Our Cats never seemed to find any rhythm in many games, their prior toughness wasn’t there often, and Neptunes ability to adjust in game strategy really seemed to be lacking! Impossible to live up to Jay Wrights legacy, but, a much better job could have been done with the talent that we had. Here’s to the future!!!
Dwight Roeters • Mar 27, 2025 at 7:41 pm
Pitiful post. Neptune was clueless. The fact that he gave up huge leads in 8 games is unfathomable. Nice try at saving his worthless arse.
Gene Middlecamp • Mar 27, 2025 at 7:10 pm
Villanova basket ball is all you said but much more. Jay always had a point guard leader of the team, Jay could put the game on his shoulders or give the responsibility to another player coming up in Villinova’s future
Program. We the fans were always confident Nova would prevail if a close game. That ingredient has been missing. This is the first step needed to start another future Nova run for many years to come
Cathy Nevins • Mar 27, 2025 at 5:35 pm
This is a great article. Your ability to examine the most important goals, aspirations, indeed, the soul of Villanova basketball was perfect. We will return and Kyle Neptune set the example again that it’s not the number of wins but the Way you Play and Win. Go Villanova!
Michael Otto Frick • Mar 27, 2025 at 4:02 pm
Attitude.
Jay Wright demanded great attitudes from his players.
Unfortunately the Transfer portal and NIL has changed Attitude to Money and thus ruined college sports
Charles J. Orlando • Mar 27, 2025 at 3:18 pm
Very well said!
Rich • Mar 27, 2025 at 11:56 am
Any heart that the program had has been ripped out by NIL and the transfer portal. Sad situation.
Mark • Mar 27, 2025 at 11:24 am
I think we lost our recruiting mojo when jay retired
Diana Sugg • Mar 27, 2025 at 10:34 am
Terrific essay! Thank you for this. So very true.
Rosemary • Mar 27, 2025 at 10:24 am
The best article on our legacy and character of all the coaches. The terrible comments that people post on the Villanova basketball website against the players and Neptune was against what we are and what we should represent.
I hope everyone reads this article but I wonder about the naysayers. Some people are just happy complaining on the website. Thank you for such a great article.
Joe Cognetti. “66 • Mar 27, 2025 at 3:43 am
Wow. This says it all. Great article.
Robert j Cox • Mar 26, 2025 at 6:37 pm
In the three seasons of coach Neptune, I witnessed a total falling away from what has been the norm. There offense to me had no system. Seemed like playground ball to me. Defensively was more of the same. No discipline. They have never been further away from coach Wright and Massimino then now. They became unwatchable compared to what we’ve been used to. Yes Jay had some rough years in the beginning and maybe coach Neptune would have had success. But I never saw the intensity or desire from his squads. No continuity or real flow in transition. It’s tough to be the one who follows. You want to follow the one who follows a legend. Got to make the right hire. Sorry to see Richard Pitino gone. Xavier is going to improve and will be another tough Big East foe. Not like they haven’t been in the past but you get my point. Let’s get a good established winner hired and get on with the 25-26 season.
John McAndrews • Mar 26, 2025 at 6:28 pm
Well done! Great article and worth reading by all you Nova supporters.
John McAndrews, Richardson, TX
Class of 66
Joe O’Donnell • Mar 26, 2025 at 6:00 pm
I have a comment that is not.meant to attack anyone , but all of the articles relative to Villanova Basketball leave out a very important consideration . That is what the athletes need who have come to spend a formative part of their future basketball related careers deserve. They do deserve to have the benefits of good appraisals of their base talents and the education in the area of sport in which they are non acquainted or show deficiencies . the principal job of a college coach ,who is a teacher both on and off the court . To teach the physical and mental preparation of his students for the preparation to compete and guide their execution on the court..The physical and mental preparation players require is tremendous and a coach is the person responsible to see each athlete gets exactly what he needs.
Failure to provide the foregoing was unfortunate for both Kyle Neptune as well as his students. I am sure Coach Neptune did his very best, but to everyone’s misfortune he was not up to the job. For years he was a great assistant and I am sure that both Jay and the School are thankful for his commitment .Neptune had been an important part in the success of Coach Wright, the players he assisted and the School..
A change was necessary for the players even more than the students, the Alums and the School.
John G. Dzwonczyk • Mar 26, 2025 at 5:56 pm
Probably ought to interview Dale Carnegie, following this argument.
Rob Stone • Mar 26, 2025 at 5:37 pm
Good points, the team didn’t get invited to the NCAA Tournament for three years but Kyle Neptune and the team always had my respect as good people! Best wishes to all of them for the future, the new players, coaches and those leaving.
Judy Pesce • Mar 26, 2025 at 5:06 pm
Tommy Petrane,a freshman at Villanova, has shown us the true mission of the Villanova coachs. Villanova players have been coached to play with integrity, ethics, and character. Too many teams and fans value winning above all else.! Instead Tommy has shown us to embrace the way the game is played instead of the final score!!! Quite a valuable lesson from such a young man….Good for you!!!!!
Christine Petrane • Mar 26, 2025 at 4:55 pm
Agree 100 percent