As November rolls around and Thanksgiving looms, the season of gratitude comes alive. For college students, that often means one thing: Friendsgiving. It’s a time to gather with friends, celebrate the unique bond of college life and share good food and laughter. Whether you are planning to host at an off-campus apartment or turn a dining hall table into a festive centerpiece, here’s how to make a Friendsgiving memorable, meaningful and quintessentially “Villanova.”
What Exactly is Friendsgiving?
Friendsgiving has quickly become a cherished tradition, especially for students. Combining “friends” and “Thanksgiving,” this celebration offers a chance to gather with the people who make Villanova feel like home. It’s a time to take a break from the stress of exams, enjoy a meal and reflect on what we’re grateful for: primarily, each other. After all, college friends are more than just classmates. They’re the family we choose, the people we laugh with, study with and lean on when times get tough.
Hosting Friendsgiving Off-Campus:
If one is hosting Friendsgiving at an off-campus house or apartment, there’s a lot they can do to make it personal and cozy. Here are some tips to keep things simple, enjoyable and full of the Thanksgiving spirit.
- Plan a Potluck-Style Feast
Keep things easy on the budget and plan a potluck. Have each friend bring a favorite dish or dessert. One person could tackle a roast turkey or chicken (even if it’s a pre-made one), while others bring mashed potatoes, pies and seasonal vegetables. Embrace diversity, maybe someone has a favorite family recipe that’s unique to their heritage or upbringing. It’s a great way to bring something personal to the table, literally and figuratively.
- Create a Cozy Vibe
Don’t worry about formal dining setups. Even a simple arrangement of string lights, candles and fall-themed napkins can bring warmth to the room. Add a playlist in the background, and you’ll instantly create a festive and hospitable vibe.
- Celebrate Each Other
Consider setting aside a few minutes for everyone to share something they’re grateful for or a funny memory from the semester. A small gratitude circle can bring out heartfelt moments and laughter, reminding everyone why they’re thankful for this Villanova family.
Friendsgiving in the Dining Hall:
If one is living on campus and doesn’t have an off-campus space, the dining hall is a perfect alternative. With a little creativity, one can create a Friendsgiving atmosphere and enjoy a holiday meal with friends.
- Claim a Table
Arrange a time to meet up and save a spot that can fit your whole group. Get there a bit early to secure the table, and maybe bring along a few fall decorations, like mini pumpkins or festive napkins to set the scene.
- Add a Personal Touch
While the dining hall may already have Thanksgiving-inspired dishes, add a twist by bringing a few small treats to share, like cookies or homemade snacks. Just a little addition can make the meal feel special.
- Go Festive with Friends
Make it an event. Suggest a theme for the night, like everyone wearing fall colors or a “sweater weather” dress code. The extra effort will bring out the holiday spirit and turn a dining hall meal into something much more memorable.
The True Meaning of Friendsgiving at Villanova
Friendsgiving isn’t just about the food. It’s a celebration of community. With finals season just around the corner, it’s a moment to relax, laugh and connect. This gathering serves as a reminder that while family may be far away, we’ve built a supportive, loving community here at Villanova. These are the people who’ve cheered us on through the ups and downs, made us laugh during study sessions and shared our college journey.
So, this Friendsgiving, celebrate the friendships that make Villanova feel like home. Share stories, swap favorite dishes and toast to the friends who’ve become family. Whether it’s at a cozy off-campus apartment or a table in the dining hall, Friendsgiving is about gratitude, laughter and the bonds that make this season special.
